p/s:In telling ma story, I don’t want to turn pregnant ladies off because I think da story is still a good one...Good not only because I have a healthy n happy baby, but also good because I learned a lot that might be useful for expecting moms..so here we go..I had an all-natural birth n I thought it was awesome!BUT... because I think natural-birth is great, doesn't mean that it's for everyone..janji selamat..xkisah c-sec or normal..janji both mommy ngan baby selamat dan sihat...end disclaimer and on with da story..It all started in da early hours of Saturday, January 14...tp sehari sebelom tu dah start ade contractions n dah start bleeding..terus call naim suh balik :)
So here`s what`s going on sepanjang *detik2 nak lahirkan baby keisha :)
January 14
Around 4:00 a.m. ma contractions started. I'd been feeling a little bit "crampy" da day before, but didn't really think anything of it, since it wasn't painful....cuma bangun kencing dah berapa kali tak terkiralah kan,sampaikan bila aku dah duk lame sgt dlm toilet,ayah dah bising kt luar...syg sungguh ayah kat anak die ye..hehehe,naim pon gelisah sgt,risau aku dah start sakit..plus die berdebar nnti nak masuk labour room skli..lalala...I sent a text to ma ceksu (macik) to let her know what was going on n she texted me back saying that I should go back to sleep n call her in da morning to see how things were progressing. ..Was she serious??tp tapela..sbb ceksu kan bidan..hehe..so I tried to sleep for another half an hour, but by that time da contractions has intensified,1 rumah bangun n mak dah siapkan nasi goreng untuk aku n naim awal2 lg...terima kasih mak!syg mak sgt2!naim pon dah siap mandi sume...time ni aku still rase mcm xpcaye yg dah mcm smpai mase nk deliver baby..hanya Tuhan yg tau mcm mane perasaan aku..serius..suka ade,takut lgilah ade..haih..During this time naim ran around da house collecting all of da things we'd need to take with us,sume naim yang buatkan sbb aku mmg xdpt byk gerak pon..die pon sebok suh aku baring je.....so aku just rilex2 kat bilik je..muka naim dah nampak risau gile..hehehe,takut ye nak teman syg deliver nanti..ekeke...
lam 730 am gerak p hosp,before gerak sempat lg men kejar2 ngn si cici..terlepas keluar rumah plak si kecik ni..dlm 15 min jgk naim n ayah crikan cici..adeh.....bila dah smpai hosp,ceksu pon dah masuk shift die dah..tunggu punye tunggu (mase nilah dpt tgok mcm2 gelagat org nk beranak n tgah duk *enjoy*contractions..errrhhh..seram ok)..sembang2 n lepak ngn macik aku dlu,then kejap2 aku bgun lepak ngn naim...aku tau time ni beliau sgt2 nk try to make me feel relax aje....tq syg..hmm,dlm kol 9lebih mcm tu..I was admitted to bilik mawar,bed no 3,sedih sbb xdpt blik umah,tp xpe..demi keselamatan baby,anything for u syg,so mase inform kat naim,aku nampak kerisauan dimata die,tiba2 rasa syahdu...syg sgt2 berterima kasih pada abg sbb byk sgt2 mmbantu,dr awal mengandung sampaila ke saat2 kelahiran,dari mula2 tau positif semua benda dah start,xdpt bau mcm2,xdpt mkn mcm2,xdpt buat mcm2,smpai lah nk deliver xdpt nk gerak byk...abg sgt2 byk tolong syg...masakkan untuk syg,kemaskan rumah kita..layankan karenah syg...yg kdg2 xlogik tu..terima kasih ye abg...sampaikan syg rse,*mampuke aku buat ape yg suami aku buat sekarang kalau ditakdirkan aku sebagai seorang suami..*
Syg bersyukur sbb jodoh bersama abg,kenal abg...dpt memiliki suami mcm abg..sbb syg tau..bkn semua lelaki mampu laksanakan ape yg abg dah buat..bukan semua suami dpt lakukan ape yg abg dah tunaikan.. Cinta,kasih syg abg pada syg mmg dah terbukti...dari dulu..tp layanan abg pada syg sepanjang keisha dalam kandungan...buat kasih syg pada abg semakin bertambah,cinta abg pada syg yg melimpah ruah buat syg betul2 sujud bersyukur pada Nya..alhamdulillah...semoga berkekalan sampai syurga hendaknya....
hehe..jum cont cite..around noon, I started feeling a little defeated.. Ma contractions didn't seem to be getting any closer together *sakit main2 bak kata mak mertua aku ..they were still 3-5 minutes apart. .. *da time in between contractions is amazing...I had read before that I would get "rests" in between contractions, but I figured that it would be kind of like when u stub ur toe...after a bit, da immediate pain goes away, but there's still da slight throbbing of where da pain occurred, but no...da resting time in between contractions is AMAZING...tp bila sakit tu dtg balik..hanya Allah swt yg MAHA MENGETAHUI...YA ALLAH..ALLAH MAHA BESAR..
So dari mula check in sampai ke malam...
ma suprise, da pain makin sakit,makin sakit..I don't know whether is it because ma pain tolerance has increased or because of ketuban darah..sakit..sangat..sangat..tp aku tahan sampailah ke malam..naim n family xputus dtg bagi semangat...dan sgt buat aku makin semangat nk deliver cpt2..last check 1cm mase mula2 check in pagi tu...tp dlm skit2 tu..makan still selera,hehehe..mak mertua kesayangan bawakkan ayam masak kicap,sambal udang n kari ayam special...sedappp..ptg plak,aku request mak ngn ayah belikan pau..Mkn dan makan..makan dan makan..
Lepak atas katil,tahan sakit..n sembang ngn kak fiza,facebooking..twitter sambil mulut tak henti dgn bacaan surah2 amalan masa mengandung dan ayat2 untuk mudahkan bersalin...sakit mmg brtmbh,tp malas nk 'check jalan'hehehe,so tahan punya tahan....
around 11.30 pm-130 am
Sampaila tahap sangat2 xtahan..aku terus p check jalan,wow,da 3cm...balik ke katil,xdpt duk diam,minum air zamzam,sapu minyak selusuh,bace ayat2 amalan..then...mase ni kak nass ade call,sempat sembang kejap je sbb dah semput n sgt dah xtahan..
145am
Ok..sgt xtahan,so p check jalan lagi,nurse terkejut gile sbb aku tahan sakit sampai dah 6cm...!mane aku tau...
Nurse terus bawak masuk labour room ngn wheelchair,then mase otw ke labour room aku cpt2 call naim...sbb die balik umah kejap..*(nasib baik umah mertua belakang hosp je..)*Die mcm xcaye...huhuhu..abg oh abg..sgt comel bila syg tengah ckp dah nak deliver tapi abg boleh tanye *betul ke ni,betul ke ni..kalo dekat2 time tu syg cubit abg kuat2 tau!
I was brought to labour room...Dilation 7 cm...What a fast progress!
Mase ni aku tgok jam lam labour room tepat kol 2 am...
Water bag was broken,nurse yg tlg buatkan,xsmpt nk call makcik aku nk suh die conduct baby pon..hehehe...Then,dilation from 7,8,9,10 cm..
Suddenly I feel da urge to push,before naim masuk,aku dah start push,nurse mintak hold dlu..oo mmg xla kan.....right after naim masuk n letakkan tangan die kat ubun2 aku...serius masa tu aku ingat pesanan si mommy ammar..*fikir sakit ni nikmat,sakit ni pengorbanan yg paling indah untuk suami tercinta..so smgt tu sgt dtg plus xsbr nk tgok muka baby,tips ni sgt2 lah berkesan sbb buat kite lupe rasa sakit,sbb rasa xsbr nk deliver tu dah atasi rasa sakit contractions....tq for sharing yatie..
da nurse checked on ma cervix. "Ok, dah ready.." and she told me,teran lg ili.. i could not bear da need to push any longer for da 2nd time..so..push jela,mase tu dgr suara naim bagi semangat xputus2,terima kasih sayang...
What happened next was really strange,hahaha,I heard maself *erggghhhhhhhhhhhhh**erggghhhhhhh*...I didn't know I was going to...but I just took a huge breath, squeezed ma eyes closed, n put every bit of strength I had into pushing with all ma might,n then, whoosh! da baby slithered out like a slippery fish...It was such a funny, unexpected, amazing, thrilling feeling...tp naim ade cakap aku tersenyum masa ni,fuhh,mau xsenyumm bila dgr suara keisha nangis...mcm xpercaya baby dah selamat keluar!then bila aku pandang muka naim yg sgt2 excited dpt tgok baby keluar tu..tetiba terpikir...
Tak sangka budak comot yang aku kenal dari darjah 5 ni sekarang tengah temankan aku dalam labour room!tengah duk kasi semangat suh aku push,serius mcm xpercaya cptnye masa berlalu sbb rase mcm baru smlm je kawen!hahaha...
At 2.26 am
2x push...Our one & only princess was born! She is a healthy baby..alhamdulillah...aku ingat lagi muka naim mase baby dah selamat keluar,senyuman die,hanya Allah swt yg tau...*anak kita selamat dah syg..comel sgt...terima kasih syg..*kata2 naim buat aku sgt2 lega,1st time dpt peluk keisha masa naim letakkan kat atas dada..gembira dalam hatini..xterungkap dgn kata2, bulatje mata keisha mase naim bisikkan kan azan dan iqamat kt telinga die...alhamdulillah..alhamdulillah...terasa hilang segala kesakitan tatkala memandang bukti cinta kami..hangatnye ciuman dari seorang suami masa tu membuatkan aku rasa..seolah2 kami berdua yg paling bahagia dgn kehadiran cinta hati si keisha...keisha,mommy dan papa syg keisha sgt!
Suke sgt tgok masa naim pegang baby n panggil2 baby dgn name keisha...act,dr dlm perut pon kitorang dah panggil name keisha...hehehehe...Mommy syg keisha..syg syg abg sgt...i love both of u so muchh!Melahirkan *bukti cinta antara suami dan isteri...bukan mudah..*Was it hard work? Yes!! But, was it worth it? Absolutely!I would without hesitation do it exactly da same way da next time around...hehe,insyaallah..
Welcome to da family, ma dear Keisha... You are our precious gem that mommy n papa have been waiting for. You complete us...love u so much syg...
Name : Keisha Malaeka binti Mohd Naim....
DOB : 15 January 2012,a day after due date..
Weight at Birth : 3.07 kg
Length at Birth : 52cms
*Suara dia boleh tahan..lantang..reminds me a lot of naim...Hehehe..
ok..wallpaper lappy,ipad,and both papa n mommy nye bb dah tukar gambar keisha ok!
we love u sayang..!
Day 24,keisha siap2 nak balik from umah wan papa to umah wan mommy!
mata keisha still nampak swollen ag...sembap je kan on her 1st day..tp serius,doc pon tegur,*mata anak awak ni bulat terkedip2 mcm budak umo sebulan..bukan sehari..*
okey...batman+superman vs powerpuff girls!!hoppppp hopppppp yeahh!
tq sume...!!!!
thanks for coming sume..sorry sbb ade yg xsempat snap mase dtg eh, :(
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